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Thursday, May 17, 2012

Parents Talk

Parents Talk: An Evil Clown Stalks Children in the Name of Birthday Fun

Apparently there is an "evil" clown that is hired to scare a child in the days leading up to his or her birthday. What?

A couple weeks ago, our Parents Talk discussion was on creepy kids toys. Many agreed that a clown, anything having to do with a clown or anything resembling a clown was straight up creepy. Well, an actor in the Swiss city of Lucerne has set himself up as the "evil" birthday clown. According to the Huffington Post and the Austrian Times, for a fee, parents can hire this psychotic clown—played by actor Dominic Deville—to leave menacing, booby-trapped letters for their children. He will also tease through text messages and phone calls. Deville warns the children they are being watched and that they will soon be the victim of an attack. At the end of the terror-filled week, the birthday boy or girl catches a cake in the face. According to the …

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Michael Rose

9:01 am on Friday, May 18, 2012

This does seem a bit cruel and unusual. However, I might be inclined to hire someone to mess with my 18+ child (I don't have one...this is hypothetical). That actually could be kind of funny..."Punking" your college freshman son/daughter could be cool. For instance, maybe you could hire an impostor dorm roommate, who would be the biggest jerk of all time. Then, a few days in, you could reveal the…   more ›

Thursday, May 10, 2012

Parents Talk

What Do You Really Want For Mother's Day? Be Honest

Moms, here's your chance to think big.

The gifts range from breakfast in bed to nothing—with flowers, manicures and greeting cards in between. Moms, perhaps your families have been thinking about your big day for the past month or maybe Sunday will be the first they hear of it. Regardless of your family's style of celebration, Sunday is Mother's Day. And with more than $16.3 billion expected to be spent on the day this year, it is a highly consumer-driven holiday as well. Now's your chance to tell us what you really want. Would you like a clean house? Expensive jewelry? Maybe the day away from all of them? Or maybe, you'd like to buck the tradition and have a donation made in your name, from an organization like World Vision. For $75, your kids could buy a goat for a familiy in…

Thursday, May 3, 2012

Parents Talk

Parents Talk: Mourning A Man Who Chose Suicide

The death of a friend's son has me asking what I can do for suicide awareness and prevention.

The son of one of my friends killed himself last week. My friend found him. When I heard that on Monday, I had a rush of emotions: disbelief, despair and anger. Five days earlier, I read a story about a woman whose son, Dustin, committed suicide in fall 2011. The story was by Mike Schoemer, St. Michael Patch local editor. At the time I read the St. Michael story, I felt a tremendous amount of empathy for Dustin's mother, Gretchen Harrington. But it wasn't until I heard about the death of my friend's son that I felt some of the anguish of a suicide survivor. I cried for my friend, who came home from work to find her son dead. I wanted to hug her and sob with her for as long as she needed me; long-distance prayers and Facebook posts seem so …

Evelyn Headen

10:54 pm on Sunday, May 6, 2012

A friend of ours just shared that her 14-yer-old son has been severely depressed and suicidal. While he is getting the help he needs from family and professionals, he doesn't want any of his friends (or their parents) to know. If he had broken his leg, his friends would be signing his cast and sending him get-well cards. We have to keep talking, and include young people in our conversations, to …   more ›

Thursday, April 26, 2012

Parents Talk: What Are the Creepiest Kids Toys?

Is there a toy you avoid buying because it’s too creepy or scary?

I swear it was possessed. Furby. That furry little menace always sat idly and quiet on my daughter’s shelf when she was younger. However, the minute I walked into her room or even just walked by, Furby would start talking and doing his creepy thing. It wouldn’t have been a toy I would have ever brought into our home willingly – just the gremlin-like look of it was disturbing enough. It was one of those gifts from a relative that you try to tolerate – for a while. Eventually Furby happened to find its way into the bottom of the box of toys during a move. To this day, I’m still fairly certain I removed Furby’s batteries before it went into the box. The minute we loaded the boxes in the van, we could still hear Furby trying to interact with …

Penna1965

8:38 am on Friday, April 27, 2012

Furbys and the Bratz dolls are creepy to me.   more ›

Thursday, April 19, 2012

Parents Talk: Do Temporary Single Parents Have Any Idea What It's Like?

Do 'temps' get more than an inkling of what it's like for real single parents?

Can parents in a two-parent family ever know what life is like for a single parent? When your partner in child-rearing isn't available to help out—whether for a day, a week, a month, or even an afternoon—does that offer a glimpse into single parents' struggles? At any given moment during those times when a spouse or partner is temporarily out of the picture, the challenges may be similar to what real single parent might face: A real single parent could probably come up with a better list, but those are the kinds of things that came to my mind—such as it is. My spouse is traveling a lot for work this month, and the things falling through the cracks are getting bigger by the day, as are the cracks.  Actually, I've always thought it would …

Lynne Marie Belsha

10:54 am on Thursday, April 26, 2012

I voted no. A single parent verses a two parent household, even if one parent is the primary, there are two people to share the burdens. Be it emotionally or financially. The one thing that the country is just maybe beginning to realize is that single parents struggle. But they look at it more as a single parent household being where one of the parents (usually the dad) only has limited access or…   more ›

Monday, April 16, 2012

Torgerson: GOP Convention 'Overrun by Ron Paul Libertarians'

Ellison rival posts statement after Republicans endorse Fields.

Lynne Torgerson, Republican candidate for U.S. Congress, posted the statement below at her campaign website Monday. (On Saturday, party delegates endorsed Chris Fields to challenge incumbent DFLer Keith Ellison.) On Saturday, April 14, 2012, I attended the Republican 5th Congressional District Endorsing Convention. There was a stage at the front of the room. Approximately 6 people were seated on the stage. Every person seated was a Ron Paul Libertarian. The Convention was overrun by Ron Paul Libertarians. More than 2/3 of the delegates were Ron Paul Libertarians. When I mentioned that we were at a Republican Convention, they laughed out loud. They began the Convention. There was no opening prayer. Not even a mention of it. There was also …

Peter

8:35 pm on Sunday, May 13, 2012

This article was comical. It is amazing how close to Statism the GOP establish platform has become. The thing that I love about the liberty movement is that it draws people like Lynne Torgerson to the surface. Just a comment, my dislike for pro-life legislation is that Life is an inalienable right. The reason why the the federalists did not draft "Life, Liberty, and Property", into the …   more ›

Thursday, April 12, 2012

Parents Talk

Should Parents Pre-Chew Their Kids' Food?

The act of premastication has been in the spotlight in recent weeks.

Actress and mom Alicia Silverstone has made some major waves in the past couple weeks with a home video of her pre-chewing her 10-month-old son's food and feeding him mouth-to-mouth. The video, shown above, quite obviously went viral and got doctors, moms and bloggers talking. Silverstone even went on the defensive this past weekend saying she wasn't doing anything new, but she also wasn't suggesting others do it. "People have been feeding their kids that way for thousands of years," she said at a screening for her new movie, Vamps. "I wasn't trying to be independent or cause such a ruckus. I'm very glad that I did it." According to an ABC News report, the practice—called premastication—is in fact a common practice in other countries, it's…

Jane Flannigan

7:11 pm on Friday, April 13, 2012

Should Parents Pre-Chew Their Kid's Food . . . yes, if they have feathers and live in a nest. Really, is this necessary??   more ›

Thursday, April 5, 2012

Parents Talk

Parents Talk: More Kids Have Autism

A spectrum of conclusions explain autism spectrum disorders. What are you doing to limit autism risks for your children?

Some scary new statistics on autism were released last week. The Centers for Disease Control and Prevention (CDC) now estimates that 1 in 88 children in the United States have been identified as having autism, according to a study that looked at data from 14 communities. Results have changed since 2009, when 11.3 per 1,000 8-year-old children had been identified as having autism. There has been a 23 percent increase since the last report. Some of this increase is due to the way children are identified, diagnosed and served in their communities, although exactly how much is due to these factors is unknown, according to the CDC. Although the cause of autism is not yet known, scientists have studied children on the spectrum and parents have …

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James Sanna

10:31 am on Tuesday, April 10, 2012

FYI, for any readers who are struggling with their autistic child, check out the SW Minneapolis nonprofit End of the Spectrum, a non-profit that helps parents advocate for their children with severe autism. http://www.endofthespectrum.org/ Here's our story on their work: http://patch.com/A-rwwK   more ›

Tuesday, March 27, 2012

Letter: Today is American Diabetes Alert Day

Nearly 26 million people in the U.S. have diabetes.

Open Letter to the Editor: Tuesday, March 27, 2012, is American Diabetes Alert Day—a “wake up” call to inform people about the seriousness of diabetes. If left untreated, diabetes can lead to deadly complications—including heart disease, stroke, kidney disease, blindness and amputation.  Nearly 26 million children and adults in the U.S. have diabetes—including 375,000 people in Minnesota. A quarter of those with the disease—almost 100,000 in Minnesota alone—do not know they have it. By 2050, as many as one in three American adults will have diabetes. The good news is that type 2 diabetes can be prevented or delayed through regular physical activity, healthy eating, and by losing just 7 percent of body weight (15 pounds if you weigh 200…

rob_h78

12:05 pm on Tuesday, March 27, 2012

Diabetes is just such a huge problem and while many people call it a ticking medical time-bomb waiting to explode I think that it is already exploding and that it is a process that will keep exploding for decades to come and the cost to society is going to be enormous and while I know many people are so worried about the government doing much of anything, the reality is that if something isn't …   more ›

Thursday, March 22, 2012

Parents Talk: Can Schools Be Free of Bullying?

A Prevention of School Bullying task force is studying bullying in Minnesota, but can new policies and laws help prevent the problem?

When I was in junior high more than 20 years ago, bullying existed.  I remember two girls in my seventh grade junior high choir class – and yes, I can still picture their faces and remember their names – which routinely made it their mission in life to pick on others. I, like many others, just tried to avoid these two girls as much as possible – which didn’t always work. Fast-forward more than 20 years and it doesn’t seem like a lot has changed. We still hear stories of bullying incidents time and time again. I do think some schools are being more proactive in telling students and parents what to do about bullying incidents. But, I don’t know if the culture has changed much in some schools. There are still circumstances where some schools …

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Wendy Erlien

1:24 pm on Tuesday, April 24, 2012

According to the Minnesota Department of Education, the Bullying Prevention Task Force will be holding a listening session in Rochester on Thursday, April 26 to "...provide the opportunity for stakeholders to provide information and insight to task force members that will inform the group’s final recommendations to Governor Dayton and the legislature." http://education.state.mn.us/MDE/Welcome/…   more ›

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