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POLL: Do You Approve Of The Marriage Amendment's Ballot Title?

Secretary of State Mark Ritchie announced the new language Thursday.

 

Late last week, Secretary of State Mark Ritchie announced the title that will introduce the same-sex marriage amendment on the November ballot.

He chose the words, "Limiting the status of marriage to opposite sex couples."

According to the Star Tribune, amendment supporters wanted the title, "Recognition of marriage solely between one man and one woman."

Chuck Darrell,  a spokesman for Minnesota for Marriage, the amendment proponents, told the Star Tribune that Ritchie's language choice "is a perfect example of why we need the marriage amendment—you can't trust politicians to allow the law. They are beholden to special interests, like gay marriage activists, and they will force their agenda without the people having their day. The only way to control the definition of marriage is to put it in the Constitution, where politicians and special interests can't meddle with it."

According to MPR, Richard Carlbom of Minnesotans United for All Families, which opposes the amendment, said the new title looks "accurate." Carlbom said "voters are going to vote on the question, and the question remains the same."

The amendment will ask:

"Shall the Minnesota Constitution be amended to provide that only a union of one man and one woman shall be valid or recognized as a marriage in Minnesota?"

Now that groups for and against the amendment have spoken, we want to know what you think. Answer our polls and tell us in the comments why you feel the way you do.

 

Updated 12:43 p.m. 7/3/12: University of Minnesota Law School professor Dale Carpenter writes in, saying Richie and other Secretaries of State have been allowed to do this sort of thing since 1919. He writes: "The idea is that the governmental body that wants the amendment should not be allowed single-handedly to stack the deck in its favor by choosing the title as well."

  • Do you think the language above a ballot question can affect the outcome of the vote?

    (Voting has been closed for this question)
    • Yes.
        649 (79%)
    • No.
        172 (20%)
    Total votes: 821
  • What should be the title above the marriage amendment on the November ballot?

    (Voting has been closed for this question)
    • "Limiting the status of marriage to opposite sex couples."
        452 (55%)
    • "Recognition of marriage solely between one man and one woman."
        361 (44%)
    Total votes: 813
  • Your vote will only count once. This is not a scientific poll. View Results Vote!
About this column: The 2012 election season is heating up and Patch is bringing you coverage of the candidates and issues for local, state and U.S. races. Related Topics: Gay Marriage, Minnesota for Marriage, Minnesotans United for all Families, Same Sex Marriage, and gay marriage amendment

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Kevira Voegele

12:05 pm on Monday, July 2, 2012

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James Sanna

12:09 pm on Monday, July 2, 2012

For me, I was furious when I heard what Ritchie had done (keep in mind, I'm gay and I want to get married some day). Aren't the managers of our elections supposed to scrupulously neutral, like Ritchie was during the Franken/Coleman recount?

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ABSG

12:41 pm on Monday, July 2, 2012

I'm surprised that ONE (1) individual has the power to decide something like this. You would think that the legislature would have had this as part of the bill. Very Odd....

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CHDaggett

9:02 pm on Monday, July 2, 2012

James - and the other wording is less biased?? Mark is just trying to make it more clear what the actual intent of the amendment is (IMHO)

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James Sanna

9:18 pm on Monday, July 2, 2012

@CHDaggett - Oh, heck no. But like I said in my reply to Edward's comment, below, I don't think Ritchie shouldn't be engaging in the fight. The original wording was decided by the legislature, and the pro-gay side lost that fight along with the fight to keep it off the ballot. I'm just worried by his actions create the perception of bias, when we want him to be as neutral as possible, trusted by all sides. Why push for an advantage in this situation when you see the potential damage?

Not that my position would be the same on Ritchie's outspoken opposition to the voter ID question. That's a different mess entirely, since he's also the state's highest-ranking expert on that stuff.

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Penna1965

8:55 am on Tuesday, July 3, 2012

You think Ritchie was scrupulously neutral in the Franken/Coleman recount? I am not understanding the wording difference. Can you explain it to me, seriously, the words look the same, but there is an apparent difference, or this wouldn't be a hot topic.

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Dusk

3:01 pm on Monday, July 9, 2012

In response to ABSG, the legislature DID provide a title to the amendment as part of the bill. A simple read of the Minnesota Constitution reveals that the legislature, and NOT the governor, has the power to submit constitutional amendments to voters. This includes the power to choose the form and phrasing of the proposal. The secretary's unilateral decision to change the title (and flimsy legal argument in support of his power-grab) are unprecedented and clearly beyond the bounds of his office.

Edward

12:19 pm on Monday, July 2, 2012

I think Ritchie's wording makes clearer the impact of passage of the ballot question.

We already recognize (by law) marriage as being limited to between a man and a woman in Minnesota, so that title doesn't tell me anything about how this amendment changes what we already have. In fact, I wonder why we have this on the ballot at all, since existing Minnesota law already prohibits gay marriage.

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Colin Lee

5:11 pm on Monday, July 2, 2012

Let's see if I can explain the intent of this bill. Those who constructed the bill are Tenthers. So-called "Tenthers" believe, contrary to the Supremacy Clause of the U.S. Constitution and the preemption doctrine, that state laws and constitutions trump federal laws and court decisions. They believe that adding the existing state law to the state Constitution will stop courts and legislators from changing or preempting the law. However, the federal government both can and has overridden state constitution clauses all the time. Either Congress or the Federal Supreme Court can strike down Minnesota Constitution clauses.

Most people expect these divisive constitutional amendments will be preempted later, but they will scare away out-of-state job-seekers until then.

http://litigation.findlaw.com/legal-system/the-supremacy-clause-and-the-doctrine-of-preemption.html

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James Sanna

5:52 pm on Monday, July 2, 2012

@Edward - It's true that it foregrounds those of us harmed by the amendment. However, I feel like us pro-gay types lost the argument on how this would be defined, and it's not Sec. Ritchie's place to engage in that debate. Maybe I'm wrong on that, but when I read the news about his action, I had visions of Katherine Harris, the Florida Sec of State 1/5/99 - 1/7/03. Not that this is tantamount to purging eligible voters from the rolls before the closest presidential election in recent history, but it's still politicizing an office that shouldn't be political.

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MARY JOAN ROURKE

10:00 am on Tuesday, July 3, 2012

I agree because the law has been tested to the supreme court in Minnesota and it was stated that marriage is between a man and woman. I think we are wasting a lot of money on this issue.

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David

2:21 am on Thursday, July 19, 2012

@Colin Lee: The Supremacy Clause only covers the Enumerated Powers of the Constitution, not every aspect of our Republic. As the 10th Amendment clearly states, "The powers not delegated to the United States by the Constitution, nor prohibited by it to the States, are reserved to the States respectively, or to the people." Therefore, the Federal Government has no authority outside the limits of those 18 powers and the Supremacy Clause applies ONLY to laws relating to them. All other "power" is clearly and specifically given to the States and the People. So, no, you haven't explained the intent of the bill.

Any instances where the Federal Government has 'overridden' state constitutions which are outside of the Enumerated Powers is, by definition, unconstitutional. This arrogance by the Progressive movement to illegally create an all-powerful national central government has been going on for a century now and we are nearing a Constitutional Crisis because of it. There will be a nexus in our near future that will decide if we remain a federalist Republic or become a nationalist democracy. I think I know which outcome Colin and the gaggle of astroturf issue groups on the Left want to see happen.

Karine Ravetto

1:38 pm on Monday, July 2, 2012

They can play with the wording however much they want and I will still vote for this terrific amendment. Mark Richie is just another Looney tunes liberal and his little mindless tricks will not work. If anything, what Mark Richie has done will guarantee that the amendment passes - the majority in this state doesn't like to be ****** with and this will have the opposite affect that the little tool was hoping for.

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Joe Carlin

10:39 am on Tuesday, July 3, 2012

Seriously, you would codify discrimination into our state constitution against an entire group merely to spite a single man?

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Mulder

9:21 pm on Saturday, July 14, 2012

For the legally challenged (I'm looking at you Karine, and people just like you), they conveniently ignore the fact that state law gives the Secretary of State to choose the title used on the ballot for any constitutional amendment. Making a title more clear by exposing the truth to voters leads to a more informed voter, thus increasing the chances of their vote being what they intended.

Secretary Richie is not engaging in partisan politics by doing so, nor does he have to defend his change.

So before you hurl insults at "looney liberals", perhaps you should take a look in the mirror and see what looney you see staring back it you. I'm sure it will be enlightening if you have your eyes open.

David Haines

2:14 pm on Monday, July 2, 2012

The question is still the same and the answer is still NO.

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ATK

2:56 pm on Monday, July 2, 2012

I'm afraid we must be very specific about the choice of words here, so no one can twist the meaning of what is being said. I simply mean that, in today's society, too many people are trying to change the meaning of certain words or phrases to accomodate their small groups. Then the rest of society is supposed to put up with an incorrect defination that changes things for every one..

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HHF34

3:03 pm on Monday, July 2, 2012

The new name is in "Lawyer Speak" and meant to be confusing as opposed to the common language selected by the legislature. Mark Richie is just showing his true political colors, yet again... Btw - how about those Felons who voted cases way back from Coleman/Franken, easy conviction, yet none have been charged yet...

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Mulder

9:24 pm on Saturday, July 14, 2012

When you can show evidence of rampant voter fraud, then you might have something to complain about. Since you can't, you're just another low-information Republican that repeats non-facts you get from your Messiah, Fox News.

Grow up.

Susan

3:15 pm on Monday, July 2, 2012

I will be very honest and say that I don't understand the big difference in wording here...both titles mean the same thing...no legal marriage for homosexual couples.

Why such opposition to homosexual couples wanting to get married so they can have the same rights and tax benefits as heterosexual married couples? It's a rhetorical question - I have heard all the arguments against it - which are usually based on some sort of religious argument - which has no place in our law making. Maybe those opposed try to call it immoral? Personally I find those that can not accept two loving adults wanting the same rights as others a bit immoral...but that's just me.

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CHDaggett

9:19 pm on Monday, July 2, 2012

Yeah - love how some groups constantly pull out the old "right to bear arms" part of our founding fathers arguments to justify their wish to carry their guns with them everywhere, but then conveniently bury the "separation of church and state" part!

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David

2:26 am on Thursday, July 19, 2012

The 2nd Amendment is actually a part of the Constitution. The concept of Separation of Church and State is not. So nothing to 'conveniently bury' there except a complete ignorance of what's actually IN the Constitution on CHDaggett's part.

Moral Minnesota

4:11 pm on Monday, July 2, 2012

Hello Minnesota,

Well let's all get ready to vote YES this fall on the marriage amendment and up hold our founding values. We are a nation of greatness and let's not risk our greatness by making choices will push us into moral decay.

If two people of the same sex want to love - well let them love. We have a minor and insignificant portion of our population, that seems to think that they entitled to, what has been a long and honored religious and sacred sacrament.

It is our recommendation and request that they figure out their own arrangement and some form of symbolic union - we got this one as part of our past, present and future. God bless you, God bless our family and God bless America.

Ms. Jennifer Shockla

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Susan

4:20 pm on Monday, July 2, 2012

Jennifer, the problem here is that marriage is no longer JUST an "honored religious and sacred sacrament". Marriage is also part of our legal system, with tax and other benefits. We must give all law abiding adults the same rights in this country. If you want it to be a religious sacrament, then you must remove it from our legal system....being as a majority of our law makers are married, and currently benefit from the tax credits for married people, I don't see that happening.

Religion must stay out of our law making.

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Rob

9:37 pm on Monday, July 2, 2012

Just ask State Sen. Amy Koch and Michael Brodkorb about the "long and honored religious and sacred sacrament."

BTW, us Mormons have also had a symbolic union between one man and many women - as part of our past, present, and future. Some may try to deny its existence but its there. However, Catholics keep working to deny our religious freedom by passing laws proclaiming marriage as between one man and one woman. Why can't we have our Religious Freedom?

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Pam Reynolds

9:17 am on Tuesday, July 3, 2012

Remember it is all those "minor and insignificant" portions of the population that eventually make up the majority. Minnesota voters are a very moral group who will not purposely vote to discriminate against anyone. I am not a homosexual and I have no desire to marry anyone but will vote no because the government should not dictate who I can marry or what my "family values" should be.

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Erin H

9:50 am on Tuesday, July 3, 2012

I love when people say that marriage is a "long and honored religious and sacred sacrament." It shows their ignorance. Marriage used to be about busines and furthering one's land and ownership. It was about what you could get - 2 goats and a cow. Infidelity was commonplace because marriage was not about love. It has only been deemed "sacred" in the last 50 years or so. And don't try to speak about the foundation of our nation as an excuse to be a bigot. Thomas Jefferson had a whole other family with one of his slaves. How is that honoring a "sacred sacrament"?
The homosexual community is not an insignigificant portion of our population and again, you show your ignorance with such comments. What makes you so entitled to this sacrament?

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Joe Carlin

10:37 am on Tuesday, July 3, 2012

So Jews only make up 2% of he population. Is that also "minor and insignificant" enough to start discriminating against them too?

Michelle Higgins

4:16 pm on Monday, July 2, 2012

I believe the original one is easier to understand for all people. The one thought up by Richie is lawyer speak and could be a bit confusing for some. It needs to be very brief and easy to understand on the ballot. That being said: Just vote NO. Marriage is a right and not a heterosexual privilage.

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ATK

5:04 pm on Monday, July 2, 2012

It must be clearly stated...one man and one woman..
When the U.S. was founded, many laws were written almost directly from the Christian 10 Commandments. So, for those few radicals that don't like it, this country is Christian and has religious morals.
This entire subject is a perfect example of not allowing a few radicals to change the definition of something to suit their purpose alone and EVERYBODY else has to "live with it".

Marriage is and will always be a union of one man and one woman....we just have to like it OR lump it..

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Susan

5:32 pm on Monday, July 2, 2012

ATK, maybe you should take an American History course...but not in a church, in a school.

kerry evans

4:51 pm on Monday, July 2, 2012

The federal and state governments are overtaking our personal lives period. We are even being made to buy a certain kind of light bulb. This has to stop. Same with "Obamadon't Care". Let's return to the Constitution. Leave it alone to stand on its own merit as it has done for over 200 years. No more legislizing personal choices.

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CHDaggett

11:32 am on Tuesday, July 3, 2012

Kerry - ummm...you mean aside from the additional 17 provisions that have been added to the constitution since it was adopted in 1791? http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/List_of_amendments_to_the_United_States_Constitution

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David

2:33 am on Thursday, July 19, 2012

At least those provisions have been added according to the proscribed protocol set out in the Constitution itself. Unlike all the "rights" progressives continue to claim are there via activist judges and corrupt federal congressmen. If the opposition is so sure that they have God, Right and the majority on their side then why are they so afraid to let the people vote in November? SO afraid that Ritchie needs to overstep his authority in an obvious attempt to "SUPPRESS VOTES" for the amendment by deliberately confusing voters with the title change. The Left claims it's all for democracy, then it's time for them to put their money where their (collective) mouth is and let the people vote.

Brad Dimond

5:20 pm on Monday, July 2, 2012

The question not asked is "Why we are we amending our foundational governing document willy-nilly?" Government by ballot initiatives requiring simple majorities invites tyranny by a small majority and diverts time, energy and $$ from addressing pressing governing issues. In the near future we're California. Their brand of government by ballot initiative has helped drive the state in to a disasterous financial posture.

For those supporting the marriage amendment - why is this issue of such moment that it distracts us from more pressing issues? Budget and the chicanery used to "balance" it in Minnesota is a more pressing concern. There is no homosexual marriage in the state, amending the constitution doesn't change the functional situation. Amending the constitution merely creates certainty that a repeal amendment will be on the ballot in the near future. It's an absolutely futile effort.

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David

2:41 am on Thursday, July 19, 2012

I was actually against putting forth this amendment. I much preferred pushing for Right to Work and Voter ID as those are far more important. As a conservative with libertarian tendencies, I think the State should get out of the marriage business altogether and leave it to the religious and social groups. On this level, marriage is nothing more than contract law anyway.

The historical reason for the State giving perks to m/w marriages was because they produced children which was in the State's interest to have. A lazy and selfish society has caused many couples to have only 1 or no children at all and Medical advancements allow other couples to have children. There is also adoption so that reason is now moot. I'd have far more sympathy for the opposition if they argued that a loving gay family is a better alternative that orphanages, but all we get is hysteria and name calling.

But since the State is involved in marriage, the People have the right to decide who will and will not get those perks, simple as that.

pete whipple

6:30 pm on Monday, July 2, 2012

Our state legislators have no need or right to ask it's citizens to vote on whether the state can discriminate against a segment of its citizens. All our citizens are created equal and should be respected regardless of their affiliations..same sex marriage is not going away and you can't vote it away.

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ATK

11:28 pm on Monday, July 2, 2012

Pete,
what in the world are you thinking here......all citizens are respected equally..
But 2 men can't marry each other nor can 2 women marry each other....that is not discrimination...that is the law of nature.
Men can't get each other pregnant and have children and create our future generations.....me and billions of others are just sayin'...

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Susan

8:17 am on Tuesday, July 3, 2012

ATK, If people were only to marry for procreation, wouldn't this prohibit a 50 year-old widow from remarrying? I mean, she wouldn't be able to have children anymore, so why should she be allowed to get married? Or shouldn't she?

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pete whipple

9:52 am on Tuesday, July 3, 2012

Can two adults marry and not have bearing children in mind?
Can two 80 year old adults marry and not have intercourse in mind?
Does same sex marriages have to be between homosexuals?

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Joe Carlin

10:35 am on Tuesday, July 3, 2012

ATK, seven billion people aren't enough? There are 400,000 kids in foster care, every last single one of them created and put there by a heterosexual couple. To you, that isn't enough? It is a blessing, not a curse, that they don't procreate. They care for the children that heterosexuals choose not to, giving them loving, stable homes, and all of society benefits from that.

Eider Brown

7:33 pm on Monday, July 2, 2012

That there is a constitutional amendment question at all demonstrates the contempt that the Republicans in the legislature have for constitutional processes. MN law will not change as a result of this proposed amendment, what the Rs are trying to do is to prevent future legislatures from dealing with this question in a normal legislative process. A normal legislative process being one where a bill passes both houses of the legislature and a Governor signs the bill. We already have a ban on marriage equality in law, nothing in law will change what will change is the ability of the legislature to deal with the issue in the future.

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Robert Skrentner

7:36 pm on Monday, July 2, 2012

So, when are we going to vote to execute adulterers? When are we going to vote to again deny blacks their civil rights to marry whom they chose or for that matter, at what bus they can ride on? When are we going to execute our daughters who are not virgins when they marry?
We are treading a dangerous path toward Shira law. Only this time we will call it Christian law

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ATK

9:42 pm on Monday, July 2, 2012

Robert, you are so far off base....what you have written here is disgustingly wrong. All the general population wants to make clear is that marriage is and will always be a union of a man and a woman. You can throw Christianity under the bus all you want, pretending you know more than God Almighty. He put marriage in motion as the way to populate our world and create a society.
We can't say gay people don't agree with that or not, but, as radicals go, you are right up there with those who continually want to shove your crap down everyone's throat.
We should always respect all human beings.........that is required of us all from God Himself.. but, this gay movement stuff is dangerous. I would gladly stand by and defend any gay person, until the homosexual act is committed.
And to you Susan, I would trust the church's history before I would acknowledge any general history information.

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Susan

10:00 pm on Monday, July 2, 2012

And yet, ATK, we are talking about our legal laws and rights...not the church's. If you want to live in America, you have to follow Constitutional laws, which are not always the same as the church's laws.

Silvia

8:43 pm on Monday, July 2, 2012

Well said Jennifer, I am with you in it.

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Rob

9:48 pm on Monday, July 2, 2012

ATK, what if my church says marriage is between one man and many women? Is your church more important or deemed more powerful than my church? Should your church's opinions enslave my church's members? Where is my religious freedom?

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CHDaggett

7:58 am on Tuesday, July 3, 2012

What "enslavement"?? You don't believe in same sex marriage? Don't marry someone of the same sex! Free choice!

ATK

10:01 pm on Monday, July 2, 2012

Hi Rob,
Many of us know nothing about the morman beliefs. As a Catholic, I can only share with you what the Catholic church teaches on the subject of marriage.
And that has always been one man and one woman having children together, and raising them in a family setting, where all are equally important and loved.

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Mulder

9:35 pm on Saturday, July 14, 2012

You conveniently overlook the fact that Catholic priests have been molesting alter boys for decades, while preaching against the supposed "sins" of homosexuality.

I think there's a bit of a disconnect between their proclaimed religious beliefs, and their actions. So if they're this conflicted over their own teachings, it does make you question their supposed beliefs and teachings about marriage.

Rob

10:14 pm on Monday, July 2, 2012

ATK, should we enshrine only Catholic teaching into the Minnesota Constitution? Wouldn't that infringe upon my religious freedom?

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ATK

10:58 pm on Monday, July 2, 2012

Rob,
As I understand the Catholic church, they respect the Jewish faith as well as numerous Christian churches. Heck, Jesus Himself, was raised as a Jew. He started the Christian church. There are major and minor differences in what they all believe....what is your background ?
This country was formed based upon Christian morals and values.

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Susan

8:06 am on Tuesday, July 3, 2012

So ATK, if I am not a Christian I can not have good morals and values?

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Paul

6:44 pm on Friday, July 20, 2012

ATK, This country was founded on the Separation of church and state. Separation!

As a Christian, I am pleased by this, because it preserves my Religious freedom.

You may know that when this country was founded, the Archbishop of the Church of England was having Puritans and other Protestants jailed, and in many cases executed (!!!!) for not agreeing with HIS dogma. America was founded by Puritans fleeing persecution by the Papist Church of England.

That is why separation of church and state is so important, because it preserves our Religious freedom.

As a Christian, I thank GOD for this freedom. How do you feel about this freedom?

Danielle Cabot

10:18 pm on Monday, July 2, 2012

A question for the lawyer types: Is "recognition" as it's being used here a legal term?

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Pam Reynolds

9:03 am on Tuesday, July 3, 2012

I'm not an attorney but I will tell that the language used in laws includes something lawyers call "the spirit of the law". This allows them to take a word and change it's definition to mean something else. For example in land use laws it talks about the character of a neighborhood. That doesn't mean the attributes of the neighborhood--it translates to zoning.

ATK

11:15 pm on Monday, July 2, 2012

Yes Susan...you got it right...if we want to live in the United States, we have to follow U.S. laws...and many of them are based on Christian laws.
Back when Christ was on earth, some smart ass leaders were trying to get out of Him, whom He felt was more important, the local government or God. No matter how He might answer, the smart asses thought they could cause a problem for Him.
But Christ said, give to government that which is due the government, and give to God what is due to God.
One of the truths we can gather from this is that civil law and God's law can exist together.

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Jim

12:12 pm on Tuesday, July 3, 2012

Which Christian laws should we follow: Catholic laws, Wisconsin Synod laws, Missouri Synod laws, Universal Unitarian laws, Church of Christ laws, Evangelical Lutheran laws, Jehovah Witness laws, Church of Jesus Christ, Later-day Saints (Mormons), Southern Baptist laws, First Baptist laws, or some other Christian denomination's laws? You see if we followed Catholic law we would ban masturbation and contraception but not with Lutheran law. If we followed Baptist law, we would ban alcohol and dancing, but not with Catholic law. So, which Christian denominations laws should we follow?

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Mulder

9:40 pm on Saturday, July 14, 2012

It looks like you haven't been able to accept the fact that the Bible is merely a series of stories, rather than a recounting of the history of God. If you have some proof that there is a God, and that this guy named Jesus really died and was resurrected, I think we'd all like to see that.

So unless you have this proof, you should stop referring to Christ, Him, Her, and God as though they were actual divine beings.

Karine Ravetto

11:23 pm on Monday, July 2, 2012

As liberals and conservatives move farther and farther and apart and our hostilities and dislike for each other continue to rise, I cannot imagine that this is going to end well. As conservatives it is about keeping our freedom and limiting government intrusion into our lives. Yet you liberals seem to want to give everything away. Battles are brewing and hope you are on the right side of history.

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Susan

8:05 am on Tuesday, July 3, 2012

"As conservatives it is about keeping our freedom"
So as long as we believe what you do, we are allowed that "freedom", but if we don't believe what you believe, we aren't entitled to that freedom of religion?

Kevin O'Donovan

11:30 pm on Monday, July 2, 2012

ATK, Catholics recognize and are grateful for our Jewish roots. The Covenant between God and the Jewish People is still honored, and has never been revoked. Proponents of homosexual marriage ignore one critical fact that is impossible to overcome. A homosexual marriage will always lack complementarity. A man and a woman coming together in marriage become one. That is not possible in a homosexual marriage. Let's remember the DFL has been the party that refused to put this issue on the ballot.

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Joe Carlin

10:29 am on Tuesday, July 3, 2012

So we obviously should ban bacon then because it is considered sinful to Muslims and Jews then.

As for the "complementarity", believe me, no one ever had to write a gay relationship help book called "Men are from Mars, Men are from Mars."

Karine Ravetto

11:37 pm on Monday, July 2, 2012

So rather than attacks, share what you really think. Admit that we cannot stand each other and that we would rather not exist together. You don't believe in what I believe in and I don't believe in what you believe in. I believe that this world would be better off without you and you feel the same about us.

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Edward

4:41 am on Tuesday, July 3, 2012

If this were a ballot question to add an amendment to restrict drinking, would we call it "Limiting alcohol consumption to those over 21 years of age" or "Recognition of legal alcohol consumption solely for those over age 21" ?

Which more clearly conveys the function and intent of the law? Which wording would be easier for voters to quickly understand when voting?

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Susan

8:03 am on Tuesday, July 3, 2012

Karine, this is simply not true! I believe in tolerance and love, you seem to think and act in an opposite fashion, yet I still think you have a right to believe that. You, on the other hand don't think I have the right to believe something other than what you perceive to be "right". That is sad, and that is what will drive us farther apart, NOT because I tend to be more liberal on social issues....it is because you have no tolerance for my beliefs.

R Smith

2:25 am on Tuesday, July 3, 2012

I'm voting no because it's the right thing to do. Discrimination is present any time someone says "This is okay for us, but not THOSE people." As for whether homosexuality is a sin? If it is, it is nobody's place to judge, but God, because every? homosexual is as much a child of God as I am. They have the right to the same opportunities,happiness and amount of love that I have in my life.

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CHDaggett

8:01 am on Tuesday, July 3, 2012

Wish I could give you a standing ovation R Smith! Thank you. It's a dangerous road to start down when any government starts limiting the rights of a particular group of citizens, based solely on how they choose to live their personal lives.

Joan Gabriel

8:13 am on Tuesday, July 3, 2012

If a majority of MN voters vote "no", it will effect my life significantly, in a very positive way. I will be able to legally marry my partner of over 23 years. She and I met when we served in the US Navy, onboard a ship (AD-38), and loved being at sea.

We think that serving our country is a noble profession and the right thing to do. Especially in war time. Onboard the ship, everyone pretty much figured out that I am gay. Some were nervous or afraid of me, at least until they got to work with me, talk with me and get to know me. Once that happened, the fear subsided, I stopped getting the stink eye when I attended church service. Mind you, there were still a number of folks who didn't care one way or the other, and those who were biblically critical of me. I found that it was usually the bullies that were the most verbal and zealous in putting me down, but not always. For some reason, having the authority to tell gays that we did not have the same rights as they, made them feel extra special. Thank goodness the US military has changed for the better and eliminated overt discrimination against soldiers/sailors like me. It was the right thing to do.

If a majority of Minnesotans vote "no", I will be eternally grateful. I wish to marry because I love her. We wish to "officially" be fiscally and legally responsible to each other. This is also a matter of personal responsibility, but that rarely comes up in conversation.

Please vote "no" in November.

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Jim

12:18 pm on Tuesday, July 3, 2012

Thanks for your heartfelt comment amidst a sea of fear and confusion.

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Danielle Cabot

1:09 pm on Tuesday, July 3, 2012

Thank you, Joan. Just to be clear, voting no will not legalize gay marriage. It will reject writing the definition of marriage as being between a man and a woman into the constitution. That definition is also written into state law, and will remain after November unless the law is changed.

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David

11:34 pm on Friday, July 20, 2012

Joan: Actually, you can get married right now, no waiting in aisle 3! The amendment only restricts which types of relationships the state can recognize. And even if it fails, the state still won't be able to recognize your marriage as the statute still exits that bars the state from doing so.

So go get married. Nothing is stopping you and your partner from getting all your friends and family together and having a great big wedding in a church somewhere if you choose. You have always been able to do this and still can. You don't need a license, because the state isn't going to recognize your relationship, so there is nothing stopping you two crazy kids right now. Have at it.

Mazel Tov.

Pam Reynolds

8:52 am on Tuesday, July 3, 2012

In 2009 the Mayor of Fridley changed the entire question as presented on a petition to place the issue of using "special elections" to approve tax levies over and above the Charter restrictions. His wordsmithing did not work.
I don't understand why the question needs a title and if so how about: MN Constitutional Amendment # whatever. Mr. Richie should not be allowed and is not allowed to reflect his opinion into the question. State Statute requires "clear and concise" language that cannot be leading. I don't remember the exact Statute off the top of my head but it's there.

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Joe Carlin

10:25 am on Tuesday, July 3, 2012

I don't like my neighbor owning a gun. Can I vote on that too?

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CHDaggett

11:35 am on Tuesday, July 3, 2012

Interesting how the Legislature, when acting in its own behalf, uses the "let the voters choose!" battle cry - conveniently glossing over the little fact that THEY'RE the ones who first get to choose what we get to vote on!

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David

11:35 pm on Friday, July 20, 2012

Nope, because owning a firearm is a Constitutional right. Says so right there on the paper. Sorry.

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David

11:36 pm on Friday, July 20, 2012

CHDaggett: They vote on it first because we have a representative legislature. Don't like what they bring up? You can vote in some else in November.

Simon D

10:39 am on Tuesday, July 3, 2012

The hatred spewed on here by catholics is astounding. The funniest argument I am reading on here is that it is not "natural" for same sex couples to marry. This just in. Marriage does not exist in nature, it is a creation of mankind. And stop pretending that marriage is so sacred to you. The divorce rate in this country is just north of 50%, but with Catholics, it is nearing 60%. As long as the checks keep filling the collection box, the church is okay with that too. Used to be if you were married a second time your marriage wasn't recognized by the church unless your old partner was dead.

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Erin H

11:09 am on Tuesday, July 3, 2012

Well said, SImon. The only way to "uphold the sanctity of marriage" is to outlaw divorce.

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Karine Ravetto

12:38 pm on Tuesday, July 3, 2012

Simon says jump up and down.

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James Sanna

12:39 pm on Tuesday, July 3, 2012

@Karine - Please refrain from name-calling. Everyone else—including you, up to now—has managed to have a reasonably civil discussion. Please keep it that way.

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Susan

2:19 pm on Tuesday, July 3, 2012

Karine, you need to grow up! You agreed to Patch's User Agreement when you created your profile....don't demand to change the terms now.

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Danielle Cabot

2:34 pm on Tuesday, July 3, 2012

A comment has been deleted due to a violation of our terms of service. We thank everyone who has remained consistently respectful of others. Oh, and this most certainly is our business, otherwise I wouldn't be spending my afternoon moderating those who don't understand that.

CHDaggett

11:38 am on Tuesday, July 3, 2012

Can't help thinking of the song from South Pacific (my mother was a big Musical fan), "You've Got To Be Carefully Taught"....

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Jim

12:19 pm on Tuesday, July 3, 2012

Vote "No" on the anti-Marriage Amendment because everyone should have the freedom to marry and be happy.

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ATK

12:33 pm on Tuesday, July 3, 2012

Well, Jim my boy.....your question about what religious law to follow...
This silly blog is hardly a place to share anything really meaningful..and it has gotten way off track.
So back to the beginning we go.................Marriage is and will always be the union of one man and one woman....period..
You don't like it..............move.

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Jim

12:42 pm on Tuesday, July 3, 2012

Then why did the Pope and therefore the Catholic Church sanction the marriages of European Kings when they married more than one woman at a time? Is it possible that marriage between one man and one woman is what the Catholic Church wants in the present because it suits some ulterior motive but not necessarily what every Christian denomination wants. Therefore, would that make Minnesota a probate of the Vatican instead of to the Union of the United States? Do we really want Catholic law to dictate the Minnesota Constitution? Do we really want the Pope telling us what to do?

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Erin H

1:05 pm on Tuesday, July 3, 2012

ATK, you are wrong. Marriage has NOT always been the union of one man and one woman. Ever. Look in the bible. How many wives did Abraham, Jacob, David and Solomon have? Hundreds between them.

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Susan

2:24 pm on Tuesday, July 3, 2012

Thank you Jim and Erin for pointing out the flaws in this overly reiterated Christian argument. And thank you for doing it without trying to demean those opposed by frivolously shortening their names in a childish attempt to insult.

Deena Long

12:36 pm on Tuesday, July 3, 2012

First, Simon D, I'm Catholic and a TON of Catholics I know are against the marriage amendment and we are voters! Can't judge all Catholics.

Second, this is a free country, we need to quit discriminating! I'm not gay, and I don't care if others are gay. I don't care who marries who. So many male/female married couples are now divorced, seems like marriage is more a sham than 'sacred.' Maybe we should make marriage illegal?

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pete whipple

2:36 pm on Tuesday, July 3, 2012

I agree with your thinking, I really believe that marriage should be separated from
religion...it is a state function, allowing 2 persons to share property equally while married and provides relief when the marriage is dissolved. Perhaps the state could redefine marriage by another term...Let religions retain the word marriage for their own use and not confuse it with a legal status.

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James Sanna

12:43 pm on Tuesday, July 3, 2012

Hey all - Dale Carpenter, a constitutional law prof at the U of M sent in a note this morning, explaining a bit of constitutional background on the issue. In a nutshell, he says Ritchie and other SoSs had the power to do this since 1919.

"The idea is that the governmental body that wants the amendment should not be allowed single-handedly to stack the deck in its favor by choosing the title as well." http://patch.com/A-vJVz

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David

1:15 am on Friday, July 20, 2012

James: Here is an opposing view which states that the Constitution trumps state statutes. The author writes:

"The state constitution puts the Legislature fully in charge of the form and substance of any constitutional amendment. There is no constitutional role for the Secretary of State or the Attorney General in the amendment process and a constitutional allocation of power cannot be amended by statute. As such, the statute is not binding on the Legislature and there’s no need to debate the very debatable language of the statute. Indeed, in Duluth & N. M. Railway, 112 N.W. 897 (Minn. 1907), the Court clearly states that one Legislature cannot “bind its successor” in “prescribing the form and substance” of a ballot question."

http://www.amexp.org/blog/201206/ritchie-has-no-authority-to-replace-constitutional-amendment-titles-provided-by-legislat

Also, on the political front, here is an Op/Ed asserting that Ritchie's move is clearly political based on the grammar of the titles he created. The author writes:

"Assuming for a moment that these changes were not politically motivated in an attempt to confuse voters, let’s examine the meaning of both of these new titles. “Limiting the status of marriage to opposite sex couples” indicates that the status of marriage to same sex couples is currently permitted by law (it is not) and will be revoked if the measure is to pass."

http://unioneagle.com/2012/07/secretary-of-state-ritchie-deserves-an-f/

Read the rest.

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David

1:20 am on Friday, July 20, 2012

If I understand the author's point, it's purely opinion. Whether or not a single government body should be ALLOWED to 'stack the deck' is a settled point as the people have directly selected that process and codified it in the Constitution (See the link in my other post here). It is irrelevant whether or not the author agrees or demands some kindergarten-like mentality of fairly 'sharing" the power. The Constitution clearly states that, like the Governor, Ritchie and the Atty Gen have no role at all in putting an amendment before the people.

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Paul

6:35 pm on Friday, July 20, 2012

EX-cellent point, James Sanna, thank you!!!

MJ

1:11 pm on Tuesday, July 3, 2012

Homosexuals can and do procreate. The human population would survive if only gays and lesbians were on the planet. Ever heard of a turkey baster or surrogate mother?

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Erin H

1:46 pm on Tuesday, July 3, 2012

@Karine - you're not a very happy person, are you? Maybe you should take all this energy you're using to attack others and use it to look at yourself and what you need to be doing differently. You might be surprised at the outcome.

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James Sanna

3:57 pm on Tuesday, July 3, 2012

@Erin H - As we've been asking others, please keep it civil. Our Terms of Service: http://southwestminneapolis.patch.com/terms

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Erin H

7:22 pm on Tuesday, July 3, 2012

Yes, James.
(In my defense, my comment made a lot more sense before her comments were removed, but I will temper my words next time.)

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James Sanna

8:04 pm on Tuesday, July 3, 2012

Thanks, Erin H. I sometimes get carried away in the heat of the moment, too.

CHDaggett

1:59 pm on Tuesday, July 3, 2012

I am saddened that these exchanges are straying so far from civilized discourse. Reminds me on one of my favorite sayings:
Should you find yourself the victim of other people's bitterness, ignorance, smallness or insecurities; Remember, things could be worse. You could be them!!!!

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Kevira Voegele

2:49 pm on Tuesday, July 3, 2012

I want to remind everyone that personal attacks will not be tolerated. ~Kevira Voegele, Associate Regional Editor

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Susan

3:00 pm on Tuesday, July 3, 2012

Thank you Kevira, and my apologies for mirroring her sassyness, but I am not sure how my last comment that was deleted violated Patch's user agreement. I hope that you will delete the other comments above..."Looney Tune liberals", "disgustingly wrong", " just another Looney tunes liberal" etc.

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Kevira Voegele

3:16 pm on Tuesday, July 3, 2012

@Susan: I deleted comments that responded to one that was deleted. That seemed logical, since users who came in after the fact would not know what you were referring to.

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ATK

4:27 pm on Tuesday, July 3, 2012

Hello Kevira,
This is the first time I tried to follow a topic on this site. Does the chatting always get so off tatget and out of control here?

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Kevira Voegele

4:29 pm on Tuesday, July 3, 2012

@ATK: The conversation goes where the users take it. We can't control the direction, but we can remind people of the rules. :-)

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David J Rotert

5:11 pm on Tuesday, July 3, 2012

Of considerable note (and arguments about our being a Christian nation based on Christian laws is neither correct nor applicable) is the use of the term "limiting". A Constitution is effective when it GRANTS rights (read voting rights, civil rights), and fails when it LIMITS rights (read prohibition, slavery issues). This is bad lawmaking (as is the voting amendment) no matter what the popular opinion may be.

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pete whipple

6:05 pm on Tuesday, July 3, 2012

Thank you David, you are right on...Asking citizens to allow discrimination by the state, should never be on a ballot and the same with the voting amendment.

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Erin H

7:32 pm on Tuesday, July 3, 2012

Thank you, David. You comments are accurate, on point and I couldn't agree with you more.

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David

11:47 pm on Friday, July 20, 2012

David misunderstands the concept of rights. No constitution or government can 'grant' rights. Our rights come from God and cannot be amended or taken from us, which is why they are called 'unalienable'. This misconception that the government gives us our rights, or some document does, is simply another example of the poor civics education we have.

All the Constitution does is 'guarantee' those rights cannot be violated by the government or others. There is a big difference.

The voter ID amendment is not bad law, it is common sense. Unless you wish to argue that we should no longer demand ID to board a plane, buy cigarettes, rent a car, vote in a union or enter a federal building. So, are you saying that? And if not, why do you consider voting for our next government to be less important than those things so we need not worry who does it?

Also, as an aside, there is no federal 'right' to vote in the US Constitution. How 'bout that! We are one of only 11 "democracies" in the world that don't explicitly guarantee the right to vote.

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Chris Steller

5:58 pm on Tuesday, July 3, 2012

Be nice, y'all. I just deleted a comment for violating our terms of use (http://fridley.patch.com/terms)--specifically the part about not posting stuff that is "defamatory, abusive, obscene, profane or offensive."

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CHDaggett

8:04 pm on Tuesday, July 3, 2012

May I say I've been extremely impressed today as I've been following this discussion at how quickly a few innappropriate comments have been removed by Patch. Thank you - appreciate the diligence, time and effort this has taken throughout the day.

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James Sanna

10:48 pm on Tuesday, July 3, 2012

Well, thank you to all the commenters who've managed to keep this discussion (largely) civil without intervention from us editors! It's been real nice, from a "faith in my fellow Americans" point of view watching folks from both sides of the spectrum articulate and argue their points *without* resorting to (much) name-calling and personal attacks.

guy davidson

9:22 pm on Tuesday, July 3, 2012

being normal and mainstream used to be something to be proud of - an american value like motherhood and apple pie.. ah well times change - anything goes

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sj

12:47 am on Wednesday, July 4, 2012

I think the State should get out of the marriage "business" entirely, and replace it with Civil Unions for *everybody*: straight, gay or asexual. Only these Unions would carry legal rights and responsibilities. Marriage would be a private matter and carry no legal status. If people want the sacrament of marriage, that would be between them and their religion. If they want a wedding with a white dress and a big party, that would be their optional choice, but have no effect on their legal rights & responsibilities.

Separate these out and the Biblical questions and "whose religion?" issues should go away.

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Ellie Mazzio

7:45 am on Wednesday, July 4, 2012

Let's keep religious arguments out of this political issue. People should marry whomever they love. This idea of same-sex marriages ruining the institution of marriage offered by religious zealots is questionable. One only needs to look around to see that hetereosexual unions can be destructive without any help by the threat of same-sex marriages. As for the pro-creationist stance, please ..I say, ....a big thanks to the many gay marriages (legal or illegal) that offer homes not to mention love and attention to so many kids who get left behind by some of God's chosen people who can marry, procreate, then shrugged their parental responsibilities.

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Nick

4:04 pm on Sunday, September 2, 2012

Your statement, "People should marry whomever they love" sounds good and is well-intentioned, but I do not think it is well-thought out. It could be used to argue for polygamy or incestuous marriages. Please keep in mind that if it sounds like I'm stretching by mentioning polygamy and incestuous marriages, both of those actually do have historical precedence, while gay marriage does not. Therefore, it is gay marriage that is the more radical.

ward tatro

5:35 pm on Wednesday, July 4, 2012

A) Allow those men who want to marry men, marry men.
B) Allow those women who want to marry women, marry women.
C) Allow those folks who want to abort their babies, abort their babies

In 3 generations there will be no Democrats. Problem solved

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Jim Edward

6:59 pm on Wednesday, July 4, 2012

Damn, Ward, I wish someone would have thought of that before our current emporer was born.

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MJ

9:58 am on Tuesday, September 25, 2012

Oh, Ward. Things have changed since you took health class in 8th grade. Do you really think gays and lesbians can't have children without the help of a doctor?

Beth-Ann Bloom

7:06 pm on Wednesday, July 4, 2012

Love is love. Please leave this discriminatory amendment out of Minnesota's constitution.

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Nick

3:56 pm on Sunday, September 2, 2012

I fail to see how the amendment is discriminatory. Any man can marry any woman, and any woman can marry any man. There is no discrimination there. The current law, and the amendment, apply to all citizens equally. Just because there are people who do not want to follow that law doesn't mean that they are being discriminated against. It would be like saying that anti-polygamy laws are discriminatory against polygamists. Using that logic, all laws could be considered discriminatory because they all discriminate against people who do not want to follow them. Your statement, "Love is love" sounds good and is well-intentioned, but I do not think it is well-thought out. It could be used to argue for polygamy or incestuous marriages. Please keep in mind that if it sounds like I'm stretching by mentioning polygamy and incestuous marriages, both of those actually do have historical precedence, while gay marriage does not. Therefore, it is gay marriage that is the more radical.

Thomas K

7:52 am on Friday, July 13, 2012

"So-called "Tenthers" believe, contrary to the Supremacy Clause of the U.S. Constitution and the preemption doctrine, that state laws and constitutions trump federal laws and court decisions."

No, this is completely wrong. Go read the Tenth Amendment. It says nothing of the sort. What it does say is that powers not expressly delegated to the federal government by the Constitution are reserved to the states, or to the people. It says nothing about state laws trumping federal laws, and so on.

The reason the amendment is on the ballot is because of what happened in California. Approved voter referendum established a law that marriage is between one man and one woman. Same-sex marriage advocates didn't like that, so they sued and prevailed at the liberal California Supreme Court. Voters then enacted a Constitutional Amendment to the California state constitution. Normally, that should have been the last word, as the federal government has no jurisdiction over marriage (regulation of marriage is not an enumerated power of the federal government). I believe same-sex marriage advocates then sued the state in federal court, and somehow prevailed. I don't know exactly where the issue is today, but a law is not enough. You need an amendment.

This really irritates me because people reading a comment like this for the first time might believe it. It is much easier to explain things to someone correctly the *first* time than have to go back and correct bad learning.

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Thomas K

7:58 am on Friday, July 13, 2012

I was unable to add due to length restrictions that the reason you need an amendment - it really shouldn't be necessary - is because of judicial activist courts. The people of California said they wanted traditional marriage. Same-sex marriage advocates didn't like that, and courts somehow "found" a right for a man to marry another man, or a woman to marry another woman, where no such right existed before.

I don't like the term "gay" marriage because gays have the same right to marry as straights do. The law says a man can marry a woman, and a woman can marry a man, regardless of sexual orientation. Everyone has the same rights. Same-sex marriage advocates are attempting to redefine human civilization's oldest institution (Genesis 2:24). Sorry for the polemic here but I just want to be crystal clear on what this is about.

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rob_h78

12:15 pm on Friday, July 13, 2012

1) When Muslim's increase their population and they want to start quoting their holy book as bases for law - what then? Will you be willing to accept that or in a "Free" country do we only use your religious book?

2) At one point lots of people stated biblical verses as a bases for slavery (slavery is all over the place in the bible so if we want to go by the bible where can I pick up some good slaves - any race will do), mixed race marriage was argued as being against God's Will and the list goes on and on.

3) Regarding the Bible further Jesus said nothing about homosexuality and God didn't mention it in the 10 Commandments but He did mention 10 other things - surely if homosexuality was so bad God could have made an 11th Commandment - or dropped one of the others...

4) The pro-gay marriage movement has been increasing in "Yes" votes over time - for the anti-gay folks it is a huge voting issue and they will go out and vote while the pro-gay marriage people it isn't a huge voting issue for a lot of them.

However, as the population's movement towards pro-gay marriage continues to increase at some point the numbers will be enough for the amendments to start passing and once that happens will you be ok with gay marriage once it starts getting passed by a majority vote by the people?

Or will you still want to have your religious beliefs take precedence?

Jim Edward

7:26 am on Saturday, July 14, 2012

@robh78
God also didn't mention Pedophilia in the 10 commandments. Does that mean it should be an acceptable practice also?

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Paul

6:34 pm on Friday, July 20, 2012

Jim, Comparing love and marriage between two adults, to child abuse, is a foolish and hateful comparison.

Forgive me for calling your statement out for what it is.

Paul

6:33 pm on Friday, July 20, 2012

Ritchie is doing EXACTLY the right thing. He is calling the Amendment what it IS.

Who can argue with the truth?

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